Solo Travel for Beginners: How to Start Traveling Alone (Fearlessly)
Deep Hill Blog
Are you tired of the group chat making plans that never actually happen?
You know the drill. You find cheap flights to Portugal, drop the link in the group chat, and suddenly everyone has an excuse. “Too expensive,” “No vacation days,” “Maybe next year.” Meanwhile, your dream trip gathers dust.
It’s frustrating. It feels like your life is on hold, waiting for permission from other people to explore the world. But here is the hard truth: If you wait for others, you might never go.
The solution? Pack your bag and go alone.
Starting to travel alone is terrifying until you do it. Then, it becomes the most addictive, empowering, and liberating thing you will ever do. Here is exactly how to trade your anxiety for a boarding pass.
Quick Guide: How to Start Solo Traveling in 5 Steps
If you are wondering how to start traveling alone without overwhelming anxiety, follow these core principles:
- Choose a “Soft Landing” Destination: Start with a country that has good tourism infrastructure and high safety ratings (e.g., Japan, Iceland, or Thailand).
- Plan Your First 24 Hours: Pre-book your accommodation and airport transfer to avoid arrival panic.
- Pack Light (Carry-On Only): A lighter bag means you are more mobile, less of a target, and can move freely through crowds.
- Stay Connected: Purchase an e-SIM or local SIM card immediately so you always have maps and translation tools.
- Join a Free Walking Tour: This is the easiest, low-pressure way to meet other travelers and learn the lay of the land on day one.
The Mindset Shift: Conquering the “What Ifs”
Before you book a flight, we need to talk about the gremlins in your head.
Most people aren’t afraid of travel; they are afraid of loneliness or looking stupid. You are worried everyone will stare at you while you eat dinner. You are worried you won’t make friends.
Here is a secret from the road: Nobody is looking at you.
That couple at the table next to you? They are arguing about money. The group of friends? They are trying to figure out how to split the bill. You, sipping wine and reading a book at the bar? You look mysterious and confident.
Pro Tip: If the idea of dining alone paralyzes you, go for lunch first. It’s busier, faster, and less formal. Or, sit at the bar—bartenders are the original solo traveler’s best friend.
Choosing Your First Destination: The “Soft Landing”
Don’t hike the Amazon jungle for your first solo trip. You want a destination that feels different enough to be exciting, but easy enough to navigate without a meltdown.
We call this a Soft Landing.
Top Picks for First-Time Solo Travelers
| Destination | Why It Works | Vibe |
| London, UK | No language barrier, world-class transit, endless museums. | City Break |
| Chiang Mai, Thailand | incredibly safe, cheap, packed with digital nomads/solo travelers. | Adventure & Food |
| Reykjavik, Iceland | Low crime rate, friendly locals, nature-focused (less need for small talk). | Nature Escape |
| Barcelona, Spain | Walkable, vibrant hostel culture, great for night owls. | Culture & Party |
The Strategy: Pick a place where the barrier to entry is low. If you speak English, stick to English-speaking countries or major tourist hubs for your first rodeo.
If you’re looking for a tropical start that offers both safety and island hospitality, consider a trip to Fiji: postcard perfect getaway to dip your toes into solo travel without the stress.
The “First 24 Hours” Rule
The most stressful part of solo travel for beginners is the arrival. You are tired, jet-lagged, and suddenly in a place that smells different and sounds different.
Do not wing this part.
- Arrive in Daylight: Try to book flights that land before 4:00 PM. Everything looks scarier in the dark.
- Know Your Exit: Research exactly how to get from the airport to your hotel before you fly. Screenshot the directions.
- Book a Good Hostel/Hotel: For the first night, splurge slightly on a place with 24-hour reception and high ratings (9.0+ on Hostelworld or Booking.com). You need a safe haven to retreat to.
Safety: Trust Your Gut (It’s Smarter Than You)
Safety is the #1 concern for family members who will inevitably ask, “Is that safe?” (especially for solo female travelers).
The world is generally safer than the news would have you believe, but you shouldn’t be naive.
- Share Your Location: Use Google Maps or WhatsApp to share your live location with a trusted friend back home.
- The “Dummy” Wallet: Keep a cheap wallet with a bit of cash and an expired credit card in your pocket. Keep your real cards and cash hidden in your bag or money belt.
- Don’t Be Polite: If someone is making you uncomfortable, you do not owe them politeness. Walk away. Make a scene. Be rude. Your safety > their feelings.
- Download Offline Maps: Do this while you still have Wi-Fi at the airport.
Tip: Driving Solo? If you plan to rent a car or take your own vehicle, ensure your tech is up to scratch for navigation and hands-free calls. Check out our guide to the Best Car Head Units 2025 — Which One Should You Buy? to keep your solo road trip safe and connected
How to Make Friends (Without Being Weird)
“Will I be lonely?”
Yes, sometimes. And that’s okay. But you will be surprised how easy it is to meet people when you are alone. When you are in a group, you are a closed circle. When you are alone, you are approachable.
The Best Ways to Socialize:
- Hostel Common Rooms: Even if you sleep in a private room, hang out in the common area. Ask the classic opener: “Where have you traveled from?”
- Day Tours: A food tour or snorkeling trip puts you in a group for 4-6 hours. Bonds form naturally over shared experiences.
- Facebook Groups: Look for “Solo Female Travelers” or “Backpacking [Country Name]” groups. Post that you are in town and want to grab a coffee.
- Book a “Bucket List” Experience: Shared adrenaline creates instant bonds. Whether it’s a cooking class in Italy or a Secret glimpse of Desert Life: Ballooning in the Aussie Outback, you’ll instantly have something to talk about with your fellow travelers.
Packing: The Art of Letting Go
You cannot carry your anxieties on your back. The more you pack, the more you have to worry about.
Stick to the 80/20 Rule: You will wear 20% of your clothes 80% of the time.
- One Week Rule: Pack for one week, no matter how long the trip is. Laundromats exist everywhere.
- Comfort Shoes: You will walk more than you ever have in your life. Leave the heels; bring the sneakers.
- Power Bank: Your phone is your map, translator, and ticket. If it dies, you are in trouble. Bring a high-capacity power bank.
Conclusion: Just Book the Ticket
There is a version of you waiting on the other side of that flight. A version that is more confident, more adaptable, and infinitely more interesting at dinner parties.
You will get lost. You might get lonely for an evening. You might order something weird by accident. But you will also see sunsets that make you want to cry happy tears, and you will realize that you are capable of so much more than you thought.
The group chat isn’t going to make it happen. It’s up to you.
So, where is the first place you’re going to go?
